Questions Women Should Avoid Asking Men In Relationships

Hey Ladies, I know you all like dissecting what’s going on with
your men and honestly that is cool but what isn’t cool is when
you start asking all or any of the 4 questions below.
By the way, have you ever realized how angry a man can get
when you ask too many questions at a time? When it comes to
relationships, most women want to know everything that a man
is thinking.
But here is the truth and from a man’s perspective, there are 4
questions I think women should really avoid asking their men
while in a relationship because the answers you get are basically
those aimed at pleasing you but not the whole TRUTH.
1: Do I look fat?
Most men have learned that the answer to this question is
always NO. Always. No exceptions. Women and weight have too
close of a bond and women often define themselves and their
worth by the scale. Therefore, men are prepared and ready to say,
“No, you look beautiful!” no matter what. If a woman really cares
about looking fat, she should look in the mirror and decide for
herself. If she feels great, then no need to ask for affirmation. But
the attention-seeking woman might be desperate for
compliments and turn to her man for her fix. It’s most important
to be healthy, no matter what the scale says… Ladies!
2: What happened in your past relationships?
Some women become obsessed with finding out everything about
their man’s past. They need to know if they measure up to ex-
girlfriends or wives, if he’s as happy with them as he was before
and if he’s really over a past heartbreak. You might be especially
concerned about what went wrong with your guy’s previous
relationships. Remember, though, he might have been a very
different man then, and he probably learned from his mistakes.
Try not to hold his past wrongs against him because chances
are he doesn’t want to be reminded of them. He doesn’t want
you to see him in a bad light. Let him be the person he is now.
Let him feel good about how he is with you, and not dragged
through memories of what he did (or didn’t do) with other
partners. Of course it’s important to communicate, but too much
probing shows a lack of trust and confidence in your
relationship.
3: Are you attracted to other women?
This comes down to self-esteem (and therefore attention) and
confidence in your relationship. A man who doesn’t look at
anyone or feel anything for other women is either very old, very
tired, or just plain lying. Looking at and responding to others
doesn’t necessarily mean he doesn’t find you desirable or is
comparing you. Of course too much gawking or staring is
inappropriate, are you going to tell me you’ve never glanced at
an attractive guy? We are all humans. If he takes it to the next
level and starts to flirt, however, he’s definitely not fully
committed to you and its time to reevaluate your relationship.
4: What are you thinking?
This question usually comes up in a moment of silence, and
often times while in bed. Some women want to make sure that a
man is thinking only of them in bed, but this is a very
complicated question for a guy. Make sure you can tolerate
hearing about what’s going on in your man’s mind, and
remember not to assume he doesn’t care about you. You might
be amazed when he answers “oh, just the football game
yesterday.” Men’s minds can wonder to multiple subjects, while
women tend to concentrate on the activity at hand and analyze
every detail. Relax and take your man’s answer for what it is.